This isn’t so much your webmaster, dear reader; worrying about the war between the sexes. Its still on going and will continue to do so. Up to the point to where there will be a moment of clarity (and that’s where I will end the missive and its arguments for the moment at the end of this small essay).

Me-Too and the subsequent aspects around such that effected entertainment and the like had changed the dynamic of relationships to a unimaginable degree. There are people all around this web that have written books and in real life studies about these things. But we can see it through out the social media sphere – women dont like men as a rule, they wish most men were dead(outside of their fathers, some uncles etc and the men women actually want to be with) and any male fantasy is tantamount to heretical thought – any emotion that is right supports women or is a feminine emotive or emotion.

So what did Me Too – dying as it is do? It made men to cut there losses and no longer deal with women after a certain point and age. Its too much of risk and rightly so. But what it did to women is much more in a way sadder.

There have been successful singers since Music has been sold from the late 19th century. There have been successful models and multi-talented female entertainers from the same time period.

What things are today in the entertainment world is much different now and people are getting it wrong with the concept of “community”. I heard from many trends people that humanity will be “moving away” from mono-culture and the like.

That isnt fully true and Taylor Swift, Beyonce, Kim Kardashian, Rihanna with a few smattering of smaller female acts prove the argument misguided.

Even despite the fact for a good smattering of 18 months before the start of the two major tours for both Swift and Mrs Carter, both getting a billion dollars each way – that mostly men had top ten hits all across the board, we are seeing something quite interesting from Swift.

It may not be nothing, but it could be a much larger change. But the recent – now confirmed relationship with Travis Kelce and the implications of same if it leads into something more – babies, maybe marriage…

That women (some mothers, some single mothers, a lot of female kids between 12 and 18) have lost faith in the majority of institutions and now have put their full faith and credit and yes, for the older swifty fans – their cycles – to Taylor Swift. If she says vote for democrats – you vote that way. If she has kids with Travis – you as a woman who supports and buy her music and wait 5 MONTHS for her concert will follow and find somebody that looks and acts like Travis (maybe has the same job as him perchance?). It is much easier to follow the steps of Taylor than ones own agency when the institutions tell you as a woman that the patriarchy only sees you as sex objects.

It is not a stunning development – women follow trends – it doesn’t matter if it was Kim Kardashian breaking the internet millions of times with her obvious momentum. Or Rihanna with her product lines and her fanbase.

But what does it mean to you men out there? You better be careful.

Because some woman who had no idea, and would have better much more sane and helpful to the community she lived in, who has lost trust in the men (outside of certain members of her family and even that is dicey at best these days) now following Taylor’s lead in everything – even in relationship and baby making with a man – is a very dangerous thing to witness.

Women have agency and always have. We see it in small amounts in certain ways every day in real life, in the media and online. But we are seeing that agency being replaced by multiple artists and multilevel fanbases who are now becoming replacements in a way and sense of the cultural vibes that America and other places in the western world had at one time not even as far back as 5 years ago!

Basically a lot of women after me-too have put all of their physical motions (outside of the obvious daily bodily functions) and emotional well-being and their sexuality and how they see themselves in that way to these women mentioned above (and for those women it is NOT their fault and blame should not be placed on them at any time whatsoever) and that is truly sad dear reader…

Because the reason we are in the mess is two reasons – the intelligentsia believed that leaving concepts like feminism alone would produce the starlets of the screen both small and large from the 40’s to the 80’s as a rule and not the exception.

Turns out that wasnt fully the case. In fact it was just a movie theater – a tv screen. The reality was it was conservative women who know how to do the right thing that had the agency and made their choice to be mothers that even allowed families to succeed in the way they succeed all throughout the west after the second world war – up to the point where family planning and the pill became a thing and even that wasn’t going to be enough.

The second reason is that women need to look up to something – and if its not going to be a man, and it isnt going be their father – and not fully their mother or older sister (individuation and all that), its going to be Kim, or Taylor, or Beyonce etal. And if they have babies, then female fanbases will have babies with the men of a similar type and kind because that women has vetted trust with those men. The consequences are deep – because in a global sexual “marketplace” the queens of said market place dictate what kind of men succeed – and we see the same men, with the same height, build and whatnot – similar to Jay-Z and his history, same with Travis and his height and build (but different histories) and those men that dont have even those similar markups are out of luck.

What happens when the music industry gets tired of them?

What happens if they want to push Kim Patreas because these women have all reached a different stage in life?

What happens to Top 40/Pop then?

What even happens to relationships if what Kim sings is something that has been lost for years (mid 90’s at least) with the Pussycat Dolls and the like?

Think very deeply what comes next when too many of the fanbases get baby crazy and the men see it for what it is.

We are living in a sea change friends – and men, the only thing to defend yourselves from such is three simple things.

Attention

Affection

Commitment

And if any woman who has lost her own god giving agency to Swift (not created or maintained by her mind you) trying to get you to have kids when you know she dont have it in her mind, heart and soul – you must remove 1 or 2 or all three and move on to a woman of beauty and class that has that agency to be with.

But its hard to find those examples in the world anymore….and its getting worse by the day….

Because i see a time, and others have seen it too – that relationships between men and women do not become important. Marriage loses its religious and social relevance – that both sexes will just up and leave whenever they feel like – in spite of making a family, sharing a life and sharing certain intimate details. It could be the start of a much larger human decline on this planet.

More on this sooner rather than later.